Yesterday, I was sitting at Sydney Airport, about to catch a plane to Brisbane. A well dressed man and woman sat down opposite me. Dressed in business attire, they looked like colleagues. It was 6pm, at the tail end of the day.
The woman said: "Well it's been a successful few days Harry." The man replied: "Thank you for your involvement. I appreciate it." The woman (brushing aside his comment) said: "Oh I felt like a dead weight most of the time."
I heard this and thought: "WTF?"
Admittedly, I have no idea about the back story on this. I don't know how much the woman contributed to the "successful few days". But I did know that the man thanked … Read the rest
I'm fascinated by the world of blogging. Whether you blog about parenting, life, toy trains or business, the blogosphere is a wonderful way to connect with people in your community and beyond.
Many entrepreneurial bloggers use it as a marketing tool – a way to connect with customers through smart and helpful content marketing. Their posts position them as experts in their field; their articles become must-read content. As a result, they gain a loyal following.
But how much is too much? Some other entrepreneurs use their blog more as a way to track their entrepreneurial journey. They chronicle the highs, lows and lessons along the way. But how much is too much?
The world of blogging is all about … Read the rest
Celebrating the end of writer's block on the back deck.
For the last month, I've been in a (self-imposed) bubble. No, I didn't decide to do a digital detox. I didn't go to New Jersey to marry Jon Bon Jovi. And no one bought my business for a billion dollars so that I could laze on a beach in Bali, sipping cocktails for the rest of my life.
The bubble has been the result of the fact that I'm been immersed in two major projects which have consumed my life. Hence, the infrequent blog posts, the paltry number of Tweets, the intermittent appearances on Facebook and - shame of all shames - the failure to experience Christmas properly (and all … Read the rest
Smart people know that they are smart. They know that they did better (academically) than most of their peers at school. They know they grasp concepts much quicker than others, simply because they've been in countless group situations where they "get it" while there are other blank faces in the room. And they know they are more well read than the Average Joe.
Chances are that they cruised through school without having to study their guts out. And they end up wowing their bosses early in their careers because they seem to be able to pick up (often digital) tools far quicker than their older colleagues.
Then they hit their late 20s. And that's where the crisis of confidence hits.… Read the rest
Some years ago, I had to make a huge decision that changed my life. I ended up ditching a relationship and discovered that I was capable of a lot more than I realised. I tell the tale of why I forgot about Prince Charming and bought my own home in my post on Money Circle.… Read the rest
We all have our rituals. Some people swear by yoga. Others can't get through the day without meditation. Yet others consult the tarot while sacrificing a chicken under a full moon before they make any major decisions. I, too, have a ritual that I swear by. And I do it (almost) every weekend.
My ritual does not involve any chickens or full moons. But I know that if I don't do it, I'll have hell to pay. It keeps me sane.
If you feel overwhelmed, like there's just too much "stuff" in your life – and your brain – then I highly recommend it. So what is it?
It's simple. It's all about "Returning to Zen". I'll be honest here: … Read the rest
I know I bang on about this a lot but that's because I'm so passionate about it. I've never subscribed to the idea that you have to suffer for your art and live a frugal life. Creativity and wealth are NOT mutually exclusive. But you do have to take responsibility for your finances; don't put your head in the sand.
I guess the people at Money Circle heard me because they asked me to write about the topic. You can view that story "You don't have to starve to be an artist" here.
I'm on a bit of the productivity roll at the moment. Admittedly, I'm always looking for ways to streamline my workflow and become more efficient in the way work.
So I really resonated with this productivity chart from Funders and Founders.
You can print out a bigger version here.
It features the 80/20 Rule, of which I'm a big fan. The other strategies I'm particularly fond of include:
* No meetings unless they are decisive There is nothing more frustrating than talking for hours without achieving a definite outcome. To avoid suffering from "death by meeting", start each meeting by determining how long it's going to take and what decisions you want to make by the end … Read the rest
You want to be productive. You want to get more done. But you seem to be falling into a never-ending spiral of tasks, emails, projects and so on. You don't feel like you're ever going to get on top of everything you need to do. Obviously, this causes stress. And one of the main drivers of stress is the feeling of overwhelm, that you're drowning in a sea of tasks that never seem to stop flowing.
So you work like crazy but feel like a hamster running on a treadmill that just seems to get faster and faster. And your only option is to keep going because, if you take a break, you're only going to have an even longer … Read the rest
It's been a while since the last recap. So this is more like "the last two months in a minute"!
Lunch with Candace Bushnell It was great to see so many familiar faces at the Business Chicks lunch featuring S#x and the City author Candace Bushnell. I had the opportunity to interview Candace earlier this year and I loved how down to earth she is. We compared notes about living between a house in the country and an apartment in the city (although I'm sure her New York pad is probably more than a bit fancier than my apartment in Sydney!)
I hosted a table at the Melbourne lunch with Candace. Pictured here with Australian Writers' Centre presenter Karen Andrews, … Read the rest